Queue, Dasmariñas City
I will set the tone for this photo. This was taken during ECQ at a popular mall in Dasmariñas. Time: 8:40 AM. The supermarket opens at 9 AM. Everybody arrives separately - some by foot, some by cars, and some by bikes. The gates aren't open yet so you are directed to go to the end of an already long line. You step on the assigned markers, placed 1 meter apart. No one knows each other. But then you catch the eye of the person beside you. She smiles. You smile. She shrugs and tells you, "Ang haba ng pila. Ang hirap no? Pero kaya yan." Three feet apart, yet you've never felt closer to another human being. You see yourself through her eyes. At that precise moment, no one understands what you are going through more than her - and the people around you.
This is not an isolated case. I've heard of communities getting together to help each other during this time. I’ve seen mothers helping novice buyers select the right kind of vegetables on their shopping list (Pechay? Parsley? Kinchay? It's not easy!). I've joined a Facebook group of "Quarantine Tributes" where people post random stuff, thoughts, questions and I find that there is no negativity - just people helping other people. Again, hundreds of miles apart, yet we've never been closer.
Shared trauma binds us. It can solidify relationships, mend old wounds, and establish new relationships. The right heart always chooses compassion. I believe we have that. Look beyond what you can see. What if this time meant to force us apart, actually made us closer?
E. Loreto
Dasmariñas , Cavite
Eunice works for one of the country's biggest media networks. She has read hundreds of books and writes on her leisure time, with some of her works featured at thoughtcatalog.com!
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